AUGUST NEWSLETTER Well, August is here and it’s the hottest month in Florida, at least in my opinion. But I am thankful that I have a nice strong air conditioner. The hot weather makes me want to stay in and write so it’s a good thing. Right now as I look out my window I can see another one of our many thunderstorms is gathering. The clouds are dark and I can see the flashes of lightning. It’s so beautiful. I have been constantly trimming the bushes outside my window because my kitties don’t like it when they can’t see out clearly. They must have an unobstructed view of the birds, the squirrels and the little lizards that run around the property (I never knew the Geico lizard had so many relatives!)
The mall is packed with parents and their kids shopping for school clothes and supplies. It’s so cute to see the little ones pick out their back packs and sneakers for the coming year. I always looked forward to getting a new pencil case!
In fact I got one the other day but it wasn’t a “Hello Kitty” one or anything like that; just a plain blue one. It’s nice to see people shopping and having a good time. And there’s always pretty good Chinese food and pizza in the mall as well. And I can’t resist spraying the perfume at the makeup counter and trying the latest shades of lipstick.
My book, Trapped, is coming along nicely, it’s a pleasure to write it the words just seem to come to me. And in September, I will be starting a new class, “Rev Up the Positive Vibes”. I think it will be a great class and there will be more details to follow so stay tuned for that. And don’t forget that I offer online e-mail counseling and telephone counseling as well. I’ve gotten great results and have added a lot of new clients. And it’s very affordable! Check out the first page of my website for details. And if you need some new uplifting material to listen to in the car why not pick up my cd “You are worth it” It’s great to listen to on the way to work or when you’re taking that well deserved vacation! And please check out my face book page by the same name. _______________________________
JULY NEWSLETTER Hope your 4th of July was a safe and happy one. it was raining here, so
we decided to go to Applebee's instead for a nice, relaxing dinner. So
what are your plans for the month? Are you on vacation or do you have
kids off from school? Summertime is a perfect time to work on making
your life better and better. I ts perfect for getting out into nature
(like a picnic or the beach) and appreciating all the beauty around you.
It's a great time to catch up in the reading that you've been wanting
to do all winter but didn't get the chance. How about a visit to a
relative or friend you haven't seen in awhile?
It's a great time to slow down and contemplate the wonder of you. And
yes, you are wonderful! Take the time each day to look in the mirror and
remind yourself of that fact. Be your own best friend. Take yourself
out for a nice ice cream cone.
Another great book to read is Beth McCain’s “And Then They Were.” Very interesting; I couldn’t put it down. If you go to the website you can check it out and the many other fine products they offer.
And if you’re in the local New Port Richey/Tampa/Clearwater area of Florida please check out my friend, Cathy Kelly’s shop Angelic Touch at 4508 Croton Dr New Port Richey 849-1707, you’ll be glad you did. Cathy helped me get more intone with my meditations. Meditation really helps to relieve stress and focus your thoughts. Every one should set aside a little quiet time for themselves each day. You’ll be pleasantly surprised at the difference it can make in your life. I know I was.
And as the month goes on remember to set aside time to be good to yourself. Do something you’ve wanted to do, whether it’s a new hobby, a trip, some new clothes or furniture, making up with someone you haven’t spoken to in a long time-whatever it is why not do it-for yourself? Be good to yourself!
So, my friends that’s it for now until next time remember that you are worth it!
But most importantly, enjoy yourself. Because you deserve to enjoy your
life and your time. Ease up on yourself. Remember we all make mistakes
and it's not the end of the world. Think of mistakes as a learning
experience and nothing more. Don't play disaster over and over in your
head. It does nothing to alleviate the problem. It only serves to make
you miserable.
So put those fears aside, at least for awhile. Plan a new adventure for
yourself this month. You'll be pleasantly surprised at the way it makes
you feel. It opens up your mind and heart so you can think in ways you
never did before. :) Love,
Debbie _______________________________ JUNE NEWSLETTER Well summer’s here and the time is right for dancing in the streets (wonder where I got THAT from?) So what are your plans for this beautiful month? It’s so sunny and hot here but I’m lucky to have a beautiful beach just a few miles from my house and a nice indoor/outdoor restaurant that makes a mean margarita! It’s a great place to take some sun and relax with a good book on positive thinking (my favorite kind!) We also get spectacular thunderstorms that are so magnificent that they light up the sky! Wow, the Universe is really something!
Now I’m a big believer in adoption so I’m searching for a rescue dog. So if any of you know of one in Florida please email me and let me know! I know he wants a young puppy but he’s 83 years old and a little unsteady on his feet, so I think a little older puppy might be a better option for him. I was actually thinking of putting a schnauzer mask on my biggest cat and trying to pass him off as a schnauzer! Uh, maybe not…
For those of you who are parents, please remember to spend some quality time with your children this summer! Although they may not always show it, I believe kids love and value the things they do with their parents and remember that you are creating memories to last a life time. After all, they grow up sp fast! And summer is a great time to take that class you’ve been wanting to. Many of the community colleges have abbreviated courses that fit in the summer months. Why not check it out? And how about some great reading material. My friend Beth McCain has a new book out “And Then They Were” if you go to the Beth and Lee McCain website and purchase it. Please check it out. They have many other wonderful products and services as well! Invest some time in your emotional well being because it’s one of the best investments you can make! And please check out my page “You are worth it” on Facebook. Well folks, that’s it for now! Make everyday the best day of your life! Love, Debbie _______________________________ MAY NEWSLETTER It’s a very happy day today! We
have a new addition to our happy home:Tiffany Gia, a 2 month old tortoiseshell
kitty we adopted form the ASPCA. She
makes our #7 kitty and has been getting along fabulously with everyone else!
Please consider adopting a pet whether a cat or dog because they all need good
homes! And so do bunnies and snakes and, well you get the picture. It’s spring and it’s time to put a
spring in your step as well. If there has been something you’ve been wanting to
do then do it! Don’t let fear or the opinions of others get in your way because
it’s not important but your happiness is! So shake off that fear, open the door
and meet your dream! It’s been waiting for you long enough; don’t keep it
waiting any longer! Spend time in quiet contemplation
each day. Find a favorite cd and play it. A perfect time to meditate is first
thing in the morning or the last thing at night (or both) You’d be amazed at
how much this quiet time can help you. Consider joining a meditation group. I
also go to private one-to-one meditation. It’s a little more expensive than a
group meditation, but I find it’s great because it helps me to concentrate on
me and how I can make the most of my life. Indulge yourself because if you’re
not worth the time and money then who is? Be kind to everyone you meet. You
never know what kind of day a person had, and sometimes even a smile can make
all the difference to them and to you. Summer is rapidly approaching so
I’m sure many of you have vacation plans. Make sure you have a great time and
be safe. Take plenty of pictures so you’ll have treasured memories for many
years to come. It’s better to take pictures even of you don’t feel like it
because you’ll regret it later of you have nothing to show for your fabulous
vacation. I may not always enjoy either taking or posing for pictures but
afterward I’m glad I did! Take care of yourself. You are
important and what you want matters. Always remember that, and act accordingly.
Don’t let anyone steal your thunder! Take care until we meet again,
Love,
Debbie
APRIL NEWSLETTER
Hope this finds all of you healthy and happy. It’s April, and spring is in full bloom. It’s positively beautiful with sunny skies and moderate temperatures almost every day here in West Central Florida. The water in the Gulf of Mexico is warming up nicely and I’ve gone to the beach for some quiet meditation time. It’s so relaxing to watch the waves rush in and out and I get an occasional glimpse of playful dolphins! I believe that each of you should find a special place of your own where you can relax and rewind. Invest some time in your own well being; it’s an investment that pays for itself over and over.And now that the weather is improving it’s the perfect time to start an exercise program. Even a 20 minute walk 3-4 times a week will make a difference. I love walking because it’s so easy to do; all you need is a good pair of shoes! Why not walk with a good friend or a family member? It will give you “bonding” time as well. And it’s interesting to watch the scenery change as you walk and can be very beautiful. Spring is also a great time to start a garden (if you like that kind of thing). While I’m a big fan of nature, I’ll leave the flowers and the trees to our landscaping man. I just like looking at the results! Some people also like to do “spring cleaning.” Some find it very therapeutic to clean and there’s nothing like a sparkling clean house. It motivates you to make the changes that you keep promising yourself that you will.
Spring is also a big season for weddings.
My family and I will be attending my best friends’ daughter’s wedding. The reception will be overlooking one of our intracoastal waterways so it should be beautiful Both the bride and groom are dedicated law of Attraction practitioners, so they’re off to a good start already!
I want to thank all of you who have sent me such heartwarming compliments on my daily blogs. Your friendship means a lot to me and I enjoy writing them daily. And there are still some spots open for the counseling sessions; they are very effective and easy on the wallet, so why not try it? You deserve to get where you want to in life!
And remember to be kind to others because that kindness will be returned to you.
Have a great April!
Love,
Debbie
I think I got inspired by Beth McCain’s new novel “And Then They Were.” You should pick up a copy of this book. It was so good, I didn’t put it down until I finished it and I have NEVER done that with any other book!
MARCH NEWSLETTER
Well, it’s almost cruise time and I can’t wait! We’ll have lots of fun with Beth and Lee and get a lot of good information on the Law of Attraction. I’ve started on my first novel, “Trapped” and actually it’s doesn’t have much to do with the LOA. It’s just a story I’ve been tinkering around with for a while now. Read an excerpt from the story HERE.
Because I Love the color green and corned beef and cabbage, St. Patrick’s Day is one of my favorite holidays. Just yesterday I was talking to a lady where I get my hair done and she was telling me about the Irish Soda bread she makes-sounds delicious! Next week is my niece Michelle’s bridal shower. She lives in Fort Myers Florida. I also found an excellent Abraham-Hicks group that meets on Thursday nights in that area. Unfortunately, because I live three hours away from Ft Myers I can’t get there too often, but if any of you live in that area and are interested in attending please email me at optimistgreen@gmail.com and I’ll get you the info on it Also for those of you in the Tampa area, there is a wonderful place in New Port Richey called “Angelic Touch” It is run by our friend Cathy Kelly. She sells many great items and also provides many services such as meditation groups and therapeutic massage. Please email me for more info on this if you live in the area. It’s a wonderful thing to surround yourself with positive friends! And that’s something we should all strive to do.
I also want to thank all of you who send me such wonderful comments about my daily posts. It means a lot to me to know that they brighten up your day! It makes it all worth it. And speaking of being worth it, please check out my new page on Facebook “You Are Worth It” which also has a daily post on all things positive and LOA like. And for all the cat lovers out there my oldest kitty Sunshine, has her own page “Sunshine Cat” It has a picture of a cat sitting under a lamp shade. It’s written by kitties for kitties LOL! 
And please check out Experience Radio. Beth and Lee McCain have a wonderful radio show on the Law of Attraction, and there is some pretty nice music there as well, perfect to listen to at work while you’re on your computer. Please always remember to be grateful for all the good things in your life. Concentrate on them and the warm feelings they bring you. It’s a sure way to bring more positive in your life. Do something nice for someone without being asked and you’ll be glad you did! There are so many beautiful things in life so don’t overlook them! You can engineer your life to be as you want it to be! Well folks, that’s it for now. Stay happy and positive because you deserve to feel good about yourself and the world around you.
Love,
Debbie It’s almost Valentine’s Day and the subject is love, love, love. But do you love yourself? You are the most important person in your life and you should treat yourself accordingly. Even if you have no “significant other” there’s no reason not to treat yourself well on Valentine’s Day! (Or any other day, for that matter!) Go buy yourself something nice; something that you’ve wanted. Don’t wait for someone to buy it for you. Treat yourself to a relaxing massage or a dinner at your favorite restaurant. You don’t need to have someone else with you when you eat. I’ve done dinner out by myself many times. There are some restaurants my husband doesn’t like so when I want to go, I go. With or without company. Go to a movie, it’s a great place since you’re not allowed to talk. The point here is that you are worth doing what you want to do whether there’s someone with you or not. DO SOMETHING FOR SOMEONE ELSE Why not write a check to a favorite charity, or donate a day of your time. That will make you feel really, really good. If you have family nearby why not visit them. Make a meal for them or take them out to dinner. Your family is an important component in your life and should be treated accordingly. When you think about it, there are many things you can do to show YOURSELF some appreciation.
FEBRUARY NEWSLETTER
HAPPY, HAPPY BIRTHDAY! I had a nice surprise birthday party on February 5th. My family was there as well as my best friend and her husband. This Thursday we have another birthday to celebrate so we’ll do Italian food. On Valentine’s Day we may go to see Lulu (the singer from the 1966 movie “To Sir with Love”) She appears at a local Quality Inn in our neighborhood. Well, here’s hoping you have a wonderful February! Remember that I offer unlimited e-mail counseling just 19.95 for 30 days! I can help you work toward your goals. You deserve the life you want and I can help you get there! Be MY Valentine!
Love, Debbie JANUARY NEWSLETTER HAPPY NEW YEAR! Well folks it’s 2010! I wish you a happy and healthy one. And, more importantly, what are your plans for this year? This can be YOUR year. The Universe is ready, willing and able to help you realize your dreams. You just have to ask it and believe that it will come through for you. Sit down today and write a list of the things that you’d like to improve in your life. Really think about it. These things can be yours. You deserve to have them. You REALLY do! Then conduct your life as if they are already yours. Go through each day with positive expectations. What matters to you? What will you work toward? Are you looking to get into better shape? Why not try a trial membership at a local gym? Many times having other people work out with you keeps you on track. Do you like to swim? Try a club with a pool. 
Have you been thinking about taking up a hobby or perhaps go back to school? Check out the local community college or check the phone book (or go online) to see what types of hobby clubs are available.
Everyone has something they have been thinking about either changing or adding to their life. Now is a great time to investigate it further and get started. You’ll not only enjoy it, but the fact that you are even inquiring about some of these things gives you increased confidence and momentum to keep it up. It’s a step in the right direction. Appreciate yourself this year. You have many wonderful qualities. You deserve to have the things you want. There is plenty for everyone. Step up and claim what is yours. Take time to be grateful this year. There are many wonderful things in your life if you stop to look at them. Being grateful makes you feel good and it opens up the gates for you to receive even more things to be grateful for. Be quick to smile and laugh. Be slow to anger. Remember words cannot be taken back after they leave your mouth. So think before you speak. Walk away if you must. Worrying doesn’t solve anything. In fact, it puts you in a state of mind where it becomes difficult to think effectively and problem solve. Look for solutions, not more problems. Ask for help if you need it. Let’s all work together to make this the best year ever! You have the choice. Will it be a good year? It’s in your hands. Love, Debbie DECEMBER NEWSLETTER Another great animal charity is the Animal Rescue site. They donate bowls of food to the animals for every item that you buy and they have some really cute stuff! We have decided in our family not to give gifts this year but to pick a charity and donate to it instead. It really is wonderful because how much stuff can you buy, anyway? The wonderful Law of Attraction has blessed our family so we feel it is time to “give back.” There is also a short story that I wrote in Beth and Lee McCain's new book Unlimited Thoughts. In closing, I want to wish you a happy, safe and POSITIVE holiday season! Love, Debbie NOVEMBER HAPPY NEWSLETTER This is the perfect time of year for each of us to reflect on what we are grateful for. We have our friends and family, and the holiday is the perfect time to get together with them and reconnect. Why not play the “grateful game” this year at the family table. Everyone writes down something they are grateful for and says what it is at the table. Go all around the table saying what you are grateful for. The one who can’t come up with anything is the loser; so make a long list ― really dig deep into that grateful treasure box! CHECK IT OUT! I'M . . . I am a proud sponsor of Beth and Lee’s new radio station on Experience Radio They have done a wonderful job. Their RADIO LOA program is on 3 times daily -- at 11 am, 7 pm, and 3 am Eastern Time. Check it out! The rest of the time there is wonderful and positive New Age and Celtic music. Here's a button to click so you can listen to the station from wherever you are in the world, and listen for my commercials! So that's all for now. Stay happy and positive . . . Debbie OCTOBER NEWSLETTER W e l l ,
t h i n g s a r e c o m i n g a l o n g nicely. I am so honored to be of service to you all. The
Law of Attraction will always come
through for you if you use it and trust it to provide the best for you. Always
believe that you deserve to be happy-because you do! Remember to
do something you enjoy doing, because it not only relaxes you but it gives you
self confidence. It helps you to realize you value both to yourself and the
world around you. And don’t forget to write down those goals and see them
coming to fruition in detail. Check out
my daily blogs. I hope they are providing you with useful advice because it’s
all for you! GUEST APPEARANCE I’ll be a
guest on Beth and Lee McCain’s radio show on Sunday, October 25 at 9 pm eastern
time. I hope you will all tune in and listen. It should be a great show, and as
we all know, the hosts are terrific! CRUISING I’ll also
be sailing away with Beth and Lee on November 9-13 on
the beautiful Norwegian Sky to the Bahamas. I know I’ll get a lot of
shopping done (it’s my favorite thing to do!) I hope I’ll see some of you
there! They’ll be lots of fun Law of Attraction stuff going on aboard ship.
It’ll be wonderful, I’m sure! Well, folks, that's all for now. So as ever, Have a Happy Day! 
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THE HOLIDAY EDITION
I want to take a moment to thank you all for your support! Many of you have sent notes of appreciation and that means the world to me.
Now that season is here it is a great time to volunteer for a cause. I have sponsored kitties at both the Humane Society of the United States and the North Shore Animal League. 
I love looking at Christmas lights! I could drive around all night just going from house to house to see what decorations people have put out. It really gets the spirit of the holidays flowing!
We have a small tree (because we have six cats) and every once and awhile I’ll hear my husband say, "Get down from there!" Okay, he says it more than every once and awhile but I’m determined to have my tree. I have been thinking about having a group meeting with the cats and explain to them about Christmas and to leave the tree alone! (Oops, I think I may have had too much eggnog.)
Of course, even though it is December, it is still basically in the eighties and sunny most every day here in Florida. Although we have been getting some much needed rain, and some days the temperature has been in the fifties (which I love). The cooler weather makes it feel more like Christmas and adds to the Christmas spirit.
We will be having dinner at my parent’s house. This is standard procedure for us because as most people know, my stove has cobwebs growing on it from non-use. 
My idea of cooking is a TV dinner or opening a can; my idea of baking is going to Perkins to buy a pie! Betty Crocker I’m not! And truth be told, I don’t like cooking; in fact I never did. And because I don’t like it, I’m not a good cook. But I’ve got enough good cooks around me that I don’t have to go far for a meal. Besides, why do you think God created restaurants?
And just a quick reminder that my new CD is available here at my Web site. 
As you can see, the title of the CD is You Are Worth It. 
Please check out their Web site.
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GIVING THANKS
H a p p y T u r k e y , e v er y o n e ! There is nothing more beautiful to me than autumn leaves falling and the spectacular colors of the fall season. It’s too bad I live in Florida, no falling leaves for me (but I can go to the beach in December).
CRUISE RESCHEDULED FOR APRIL
WHY DON'T YOU JOIN US?!!!
As you may know, our November cruise with Beth and Lee has been postponed due to Beth’s mother being ill. Let us all join the McCain family in our wishes for a speedy recovery. We’ll be sailing on April 12th, and I look forward to it. I will be one of the speakers. I hope you can join me! CLICK ONTO THE SHIP and find out all the info, and book your cruise, too!
FINE DINING!
A perfect way to spend an evening is with two fine Law of Attraction practitioners, Dorina and Caesar, at their new restaurant Mirage Lounge and Eatery at 5990 Winkler Rd. in Ft. Myers Florida. They are open Tuesday through Sunday 4 pm to close, so stop by if you’re in the area. It’s nice to see how with positive thinking Caesar and Dorina created such a beautiful place ― all by seeing it completed in their minds, first. I will be speaking there within the next few weeks, so you’ll get to hear me while you eat.
SOME GOOD READING!
Please check out my short stories, I’ve added quite a few and I think they’re quite good. 
Love,
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DEBBIE
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SEPTEMBER NEWSLETTER
M y n a m e i s D e b b i e A i l m a n and I want to welcome everyone to my new Web site, optimistforever.com.
Like many of you, I used to struggle with various issues generally springing from a lack of self confidence. It took many years and lots of reading and studying to finally use the Law of Attraction in a way that would improve the quality of my life. I want to pass some of my knowledge on to you so you can improve the quality of your life as well.
You deserve to be happy. I firmly believe that. I don’t feel that we were put on this earth just to be miserable every day of our lives, and then to pass on this same saga to our children so they can suffer as well. It’s so important to spend a few minutes at the beginning and end of the day to practice being grateful for the good things in your life.
One person who
was extremely adept at doing this was Norman Vincent Peale.
When a person came to him with a problem Dr. Peale would first have that person sit down and write all the things he was grateful for. For example, the fact that he had a roof over his/her head. The fact that he/she was healthy, or had good friends or a family member (or pet) who loved them.
This started the person thinking in a “positive vibe” so the Law of Attraction could give them more to be positive about. You do the same!
Write down the
stuff you’re grateful for, even if it’s something as simple as having no
cavities at your annual dentist visit.
Once you get (and stay) on that positive vibration you’ll open the
floodgates for the Law of Attraction to help you. Besides, isn’t it a lot more
pleasant to feel happy?
Try it. Give yourself 30 days. What have you got to lose? Remember, you are worth it. Invest some time in yourself. It’s “money” well spent, don’t you think?
Well, folks, that's all for now. So as ever, Have a Happy Day! DEBBIE